Friday, June 22, 2012

How do you feel about your little brother?

Before we start reading the bed time stories last night, I asked Iz if we can spend a little time to just talk. She was like " ok!" 

"So tell me about how do U feel about your little Ike? Sad? Mad? Jealous? " I asked her. I intentionally not to mention any positivie word. Coz, I want to see how does she really feel about the whole new little brother thingy. 

I also said, "It's ok if you feel bad about it. I won't get mad.. i just want to know how you feel." I smiled at her.. 



"Happy!" she answered me without any hesitations. 

"Why are you happy?" I asked again.

"Because I get to sleep next to him, I get to say ang gugu to him, he also have to drink milk just like me..." she replied. I tried not to laugh.


Then, I asked again,"Do you feel mad every time you have to wait for mommy to be finished with baby Ike, then do your routines?" 

" It's ok , mommy! I can wait! While waiting I can watch Super Why and Umizoomie. Just make sure you play the memory game with me after you done with baby brother tho." she smiled

"You have to learn to take care and love each other when you guys are older ok?"  I continued, "it's ok to fight over things, disagree with each other, mad at each other but always remember to love each other doesn't matter what happened in the future.... " 

"Where are you going , mommy?" she interrupted me. 

"Oh, I am not going any where but to be around to see you guys fight n love over things." I smiled. 

"Ok! Please don't go anywhere. So can we read now?" she giggled. I said ok. 

Then we started to read but I couldn't help to think how good, nice, mature and patience of her to deal with the new addition. It kinda break my heart hearing her asked where am I going when I told her to love each other.




She always asked to sleep next to him


Love possing with him







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